French Kissing

Kissing is a fundamental and important thing to do before we move on to the main course. Many guys and gals take this very lightly but to me, this is the best way to start the ball rolling. Most guys have one thing in mind which is zoom over to 3rd base! If you master french kissing, I'm 100% sure that your love making session will be at another level. I totally enjoy french kissing. The touch, the taste, the experience and how we explore our partner's lips and tongue. Here are some tips for you to ponder on and hope this will make your love making a experience you'll never forget. Enjoy...

1. First, you should make sure your lips are tasty and irresistible to your partner. Keeping a supply of hard candy on hand will be helpful. Wet your lips with your tongue, and rub a candy of the flavor of your choice on your lips. Finding out in advance the flavor preference of your partner would be a good idea, but be subtle about it (example: "Just for future reference, what is your first and second choice of flavors of hard candy?"). Always find out a second choice in case the first is something that you hate. Remember, compromise is the basis of a good relationship.

2. Next, touch your partner in a non-threatening way. Using the back of your hands is a good way to accomplish this, and will also open your body up to a variety of new sensations. A good way to start is to rub the back of your hand on the back of their hand, an easy way to suggest back-handed touching without verbally asking. Start with "safe" body parts. You don't want to offend your partner right off the bat.

3. Now it is time to move in for the kiss. Pucker your lips inwards, being careful not to lick off the flavor you have prepared. This will give the impression that you have no lips, which adds a very seductive mystery to the kiss that drives many people wild with desire. When you get approximately three and one quarter centimeters apart, roll your lips outwards slowly. Hopefully, your partner will have caught on by this time and will be copying your motions.

4. When your lips get back to a normal position, pucker them outwards as far as you can until they are hard and wrinkly. Press them to your partner's lips, and open and close them, keeping the sides pressed in like a fish. If you feel comfortable, hum quietly, making sure to not hum any tune that would ruin the mood that you have created. If your partner by this time has not begun to imitate your kiss, back off. He/she is not ready for the new french kiss.

5. If your partner has responded positively, begin to slide your tongue in and out as your lips open and close. This motion may make you feel slightly like a reptile, but it is much sexier than it seems. Hopefully you will be in sync enough with your partner by this point that your tongues will be touching as they flicker in and out. Start keeping your tongue out even during the "closed" moments of your lips, so that your lips are still moving in the same motion but your tongue remains out and pressed against the other person's. Do not forget to keep back-handed touching your partner in a non-threatening manner.

6. After you have done this for 1 to 2.65 minutes, stop moving your lips in the fish motion and press them to your partner's. Explore your partner's mouth with your tongue, and remember, variety is key. Some suggestions include trying to count their teeth with your tongue or seeing how deep you can put it into their mouth (If they start to gag, PULL BACK. Nothing ruins a kiss faster than vomit).

7. At this point, let your instincts take over.